The Silence of Trauma

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Traumatic stress refers to the physical and emotional response to events that threaten the life or physical or psychological integrity of the child or someone critically important to the child. A traumatic experience is unexpected and unpredictable, and can be uncontrollable, and terrifying. Emotional responses to traumatic experience are often overwhelming and may include terror, helplessness, and extreme alertness that may lead to impulsive and ineffective reactions. Children can often feel overwhelmed and confused. 

Millions of individuals are affected by the sequelae of trauma, many of them, in silence. The effects of chronic trauma tend to be cumulative, because each event serves as a reminder of the prior trauma and reinforces its negative impact. A child or adolescent who has been exposed to a series of traumas may become increasingly inundated with each subsequent event and more convinced that the world is not a safe place. 


It does not need to be this way. There is a need to remind ourselves and those around us that everyone is subject to be exposed to trauma and the consequences may affect several of our areas of life. Parents and caregivers can help children receive the help they need to cope with these experiences and start the process of recovery. Below are some resources to learn more about trauma.

What experiences would you like to share with us? Please feel free to leave a comment.

As ever,



SWEET Institute- Mardoche Sidor, MD

Dr. Sidor is quadruple board certified in psychiatry, with vast clinical, teaching, supervision, mentorship, and management experience. He also has extensive experience in public speaking, leadership, business, and research, in addition to a passion for program development and project management. His overall goal is to empower all health care professionals throughout the United States and globally, towards ensuring the continuity of excellent patient care, while balancing the need to take care of themselves. Dr. Sidor is the main instructor for the SWEET Institute, and he is currently an Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at Columbia University. He is also the past Medical Director and Chief Medical Officer for CASES (Center for Alternative Sentencing and employment Services), where he continues to see patients and consult on challenging cases. He speaks and writes fluently in six (6) languages—French, English, Spanish, Portuguese, Creole and Italian.


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  2. The National Child Traumatic Stress Network. Understanding Traumatic Stress in Adolescents: A Primer for Substance Abuse Professionals. (2008). Available at:

  3. Child Trends. (2016). Children’s exposure to violence. Available at:\

  4. Finkelhor, D., Turner, H. A., Shattuck, A., & Hamby, S. L. (2015). Prevalence of childhood exposure to violence, crime, and abuse: Results from the national survey of children’s exposure to violence. JAMA Pediatrics, 169(8), 746-754.

  5. National Institute of Mental Health. Helping Children and Adolescents Cope with Violence and Disasters: What Parents Can Do. Available at:

Trauma Resources

  1. Access to disaster help and resources- Website: 

  2. Federal Emergency Management Agency- Website: 

  3. The National Child Traumatic Stress Network- Website: 

  4. U.S. Department of JusticeOffice for Victims of Crime-Website: